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dating services greensboro nc Moreover, we search for groups even more here. South Indians have their very own strong communities abroad and so do Gujaratis. Marathis and Bongs seek comfort if they see fellow state mates and fortunately or unfortunately we “north Indians” are a scattered group (We always were.). We try to fit with whosoever we feel good. I saw social networking sites flooded with groups of different states celebrating their own festivals, screening their regional films but somehow that sadly creates a divide. So what is it actually, is it the comfort zone, the language barrier, effect of the west or just the two states all over again? Not so long ago, my Swede friends saw me converse with my fellow Indian pal in English and asked me “Don’t you guys have the same language?” To which, I declined. He protested, saying when we meet friends, we talk to them in Swedish and you? I replied we too talk in Hindi and then realized my mistake. He smiled.
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